16 October 2017
George was once a combat medic. He had seen horrific action. He did not elaborate except to say that he had been “very lucky.” He did not elaborate on his mental health either, except to say he had no choice but to be thankful and to learn to have gratitude. The conversation was ended over someone talking baseball scores.
05 October 2017
The virtue of Choicelessness is hardly a new concept, but goes back to antiquity. Yet in most ways, this ancient concept is as relevant now as was when it was first put forth. It essentially says that life is not a choice of “A” or “B” but of numerous choices – an entire alphabet of choices. Furthermore, there is no magic intuitive process or in the moment gift any of us have to charge into a situation and immediately know the correct answer. Obviously, I am not referring to a first responder situation or the decision a pilot must make when encountering turbulence (in both cases, there is extensive training behind those types of decisions).
25 September 2017
Several years ago, VIM Executive Coaching worked with a marketing manager who came to us devoid of confidence and self-awareness. When we started working with her, she told us her manager had not liked her from the day she arrived in the company. Over time, the new vice president of marketing created a situation where the marketing manager had become totally isolated. She isolated her by undermining the marketing manager to the manager’s subordinates and then she demeaned the marketing manager’s subordinates to the marketing manager.
22 September 2017
The question that we are frequently asked at VIM Executive Coaching is if there are any techniques that executives or entrepreneurs might employ – in real time – that can at least “slowdown” the digital pace. There are certainly techniques, but the techniques are often surprising. In fact, the way executive leaders might solve some of the most modern decision-making problems are through the use of ancient techniques. This is not all that unusual a phenomenon. There are tried and trusted ways of dealing with workplace challenges that are “evergreen.” The real issue is whether executives are being trained in using those techniques.
12 September 2017
When we isolate ourselves in the work place as well as in life, we reach a point of tunnel vision. Instead of our decision-making capabilities being heightened, in isolation we tend to take counsel only in our own narrow view of the world. It is a “dangerous” practice. Taking the counsel of others into our hearts, or listening to alternate points of view with our hearts, can often lead us to a place of greater understanding and wisdom.